100%. But I also wonder…if people were ok with it being that something, that most times is not, we wouldn’t penalise boys so severely trying to avoid it. I never think that because Eric does x or likes playing with y or show his emotions is gay, but I am also extremely aware that if he were there is nothing I could do about it and that it is not an issue or a problem. :)
Amen! Holding space for boys to show an agape love, and not make something of it that it is not, is so important.
100%. But I also wonder…if people were ok with it being that something, that most times is not, we wouldn’t penalise boys so severely trying to avoid it. I never think that because Eric does x or likes playing with y or show his emotions is gay, but I am also extremely aware that if he were there is nothing I could do about it and that it is not an issue or a problem. :)